🌟 The “Dream Life Vision” List

(The life you dream about—and you deserve—without all the sugarcoating.)

🛋️ 1. Own a Home That Actually Feels Like Me

Goal: No more cookie-cutter houses—we’re talking about a place that’s just weird enough to make everyone wonder how you pulled it off. Cozy, comfortable, and totally “you.”

Pro tip: Must have a killer reading nook (because you’re not just “home”—you’re a vibe).

💭2. Develop a Regular Creative Outlet That Feels Personal and Rewarding

Goal: Whether it’s writing, drawing, crafting, or making sarcastic lists, I want to have something to express myself creatively—without the pressure to be perfect.

Pro tip: It should be something you love, not something you feel obligated to do because it looks good.

🍷 3. Have a Wine Cellar That’s Just For Me—Not for Show

Goal: A functional wine cellar, not some dusty wine rack gathering cobwebs. Handpicked selections of my favorite reds and whites, plus some obscure bottles for pretentious wine talk.

Pro tip: Don’t forget the vintage glasses that are just fancy enough to make it look like I know what I’m doing.

🌱 4. Build a Routine That Honors My Mental and Emotional Health

Goal: Have a routine that’s not about sticking to a rigid schedule, but about creating space for mental health—whether it’s quiet time, journaling, or even just allowing time to be unproductive.

Pro tip: Let go of the guilt for not being “productive” 24/7. Give yourself permission to just be.

🌍 5. Own a Weekend Getaway Cottage That’s Exactly Far Enough to Be “Escaping the World”

Goal: A cozy cabin in the middle of nowhere with just enough connection to the outside world to know when UConn wins a game, but otherwise it’s quiet and peaceful.

Pro tip: Only necessary things in it: blankets, snacks, Netflix, and a surprising amount of candles.

🎁 6. Give More Thoughtful, Personal Gifts (Because It’s About the Thought, Not the Price)

Goal: Give gifts that are personal and meaningful, rather than generic or flashy. Something that reflects their vibe and shows I actually listened to them.

Pro tip: Don’t stress about money—a well-thought-out, quirky gift can mean more than something expensive.

🌍 7. Travel to Places That Make Me Feel Something—Not Just for the Pictures

Goal: Travel somewhere that feels authentic, quiet, and culturally rich, instead of Instagram-perfect locations.

Pro tip: Slow travel—take your time, explore at your own pace, and actually immerse yourself in the experience.

👨‍👩‍👧 8. Be the Kind of Parent Who Knows How to Let Go (But Still Be Present)

Goal: Create a relationship with my kids where I support them without hovering, and give them the tools to make their own decisions—while still offering guidance when needed.

Pro tip: Give them space to grow and make mistakes. You’re not their savior—just their guide.

💬 10. Learn to Let Go of Things That Aren’t For Me

Goal: Drop anything that feels toxic—whether it’s relationships, jobs, or things that aren’t serving me anymore.

Pro tip: Let go without guilt. You don’t need to hold on to things just because they’ve been around.

🍂 10. Make Peace with the Things I’ll Never Get Around To

Goal: Accept that some things on my list will never happen—and that’s totally okay.

Pro tip: Not everything needs to be “achieved”—sometimes it’s better just to let things be and enjoy the freedom of no pressure.

🔥 BONUS:🌈 11. Surround Myself With Friends Who Get It—And Can Laugh at My Sarcasm

Goal: Have that group of people who share my energy and will join in on random nights of sarcastic banter and nerdy inside jokes.

Pro tip: We’ll never have “deep” convos—but we’ll talk about Sultans of Swing and perfect burnt ends like it’s philosophy.